Cards For Donya: Will You Help?

by Myra on August 6, 2010

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Last night I received an e-mail from a friend about a precious lady named Donya who attends church with her. Donya has Down’s Syndrome and her 50th birthday is coming up on August 18th.

I’ve been so touched by this woman’s story, that I must share it with you.  And I’m asking you to help me make precious Donya’s 50th birthday the best of her life!

Donya is no ordinary almost-50 year old.  Read what her mother says about her…

When Donya was diagnosed with Down’s Syndrome, we were told she would never walk, never talk, never be toilet trained. We were told she would not live more than 20 years. We were told to put her in an institution and forget her because we had three children who shouldn’t be burdened with her presence. Fifty years ago retarded children were hidden in attics and cellars and dismal institutions. We couldn’t do that to our precious child. Because of Donya and the parents of other children like her, education and services are now provided for many of our handicapped people.

Today, Donya is able to do everything for herself. She does her own cooking, cleaning and washing clothes. She gets up every morning and gets ready to go to work at a sheltered workshop. She makes about $25 a week and can’t wait to cash that big check and do a little shopping. She understands money and likes to save it.

She loves going to Sunday school and church every Sunday with her brother and his wife. She truly understands the joy of God. She loves shopping for clothes with another brother and his wife. Donya’s third brother and his wife, are planning a slide show of her life to show at her birthday party this year. She loves her brothers and all the rest of our family. She has never been the burden we were told she would be. We have been blessed by her presence.

Over the last two years, Donya has lost 40 pounds on Nutrisystem. She walks a half mile every day (one way) to our mail box, rain or shine, with her dog, Boots. She is obsessed with the mail and so happy when something is addressed to her.

I sent an e-mail out when Donya was 40 asking friends to share it with everyone they knew. Donya received over 1,000 cards from the states and 11 foreign countries. It took hours to read every word on every card for two weeks until her birthday. And she knew if I tried to skip a word! I promised her we would do it again when she was 50. This is the year and I’m asking you please to do it again for Donya.

How amazing!  What an incredible woman!!

What can you do?  How to get involved:

  • Leave a comment on this post with your e-mail address.  I will be sending out Donya’s address via e-mail to protect her privacy.
  • Send a card to arrive on or before August 18th!
  • Tweet: “Send a card to Donya who has Down’s Syndrome and turns 50 years old on 8/18!  http://bit.ly/cHrioG #cards4donya”
  • Blog about Cards For Donya and link back to this post for readers to get involved!

Thank you for helping make this a beautiful, wonderful birthday for Donya!

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1 Angie Combs August 6, 2010 at 11:15 am

This is such an awesome thing. Cannot wait to wish her a happy birthday!

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2 Amy August 6, 2010 at 11:22 am

We would love to send her a card!

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3 Sofia August 6, 2010 at 11:26 am

Count me in! She sounds like an awesome lady!

Sofia @ frompdxwithlove.com
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4 Rachel August 6, 2010 at 11:27 am

I’ll send her a card!! :) This is a wonderful story!!
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5 Amanda August 6, 2010 at 11:32 am

I will send a card.

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6 Susan August 6, 2010 at 11:52 am

Would love to send her a card!
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7 heather diemer August 6, 2010 at 11:58 am

I would love to send her a card!
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8 Marci@OvercomingBusy August 6, 2010 at 12:00 pm

Count me in! My dad has a cousin his age who had the same list of “nevers” as Donya. Her parents were told to institutionalize her. My great aunt refused the drs advice and raised her just like her other children. When the time came for school and there were no options in her rural community 60 years ago, my aunt started a school for the disabled. It is still running today although taken over by the community now. She is still alive and well and loves receiving mail too. I would love to send Donya a card!

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9 Ashley P August 6, 2010 at 12:00 pm

we would love to send a few cards to her & pass the word along.

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10 Melissa August 6, 2010 at 12:04 pm

I’d be happy to send her a card. I passed the word along to a friend and will also tweet about it. Thanks for the opportunity to bless Donya!
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11 nancy c. August 6, 2010 at 12:28 pm

I would love to send a card to Donya!

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12 Emily August 6, 2010 at 1:14 pm

How great! Please send me her address. I’d love to help make her day special!

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13 Kristine August 6, 2010 at 1:19 pm

I would really like to send Donya a card. I don’t have a whole lot of traffic, but I posted about her on my blog. This is a wonderful story.

the4mproject@comcast.net
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14 Tori Close August 6, 2010 at 1:32 pm

Count me in! Would love to send her a card, so please send her address my way. :)
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15 Mary Ann Miller August 6, 2010 at 1:40 pm

I would be delighted to send a card!
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16 Amy August 6, 2010 at 1:46 pm

I’d love to send her a card!

theblessedmom@gmail.com
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17 Courtnee D August 6, 2010 at 3:28 pm

I have goosebumps!! I had a cousin with Downs- he passed away a couple years ago- at 40something :) I would love to send a card. :)

cgd.avon@yahoo.com

Thanks for reposting!!
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18 Elizabeth August 6, 2010 at 3:38 pm

What a blessing to have this opportunity!
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19 MrsD05 August 6, 2010 at 4:14 pm

I would love to send Donya a card!

jennypoo803@gmail.com

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20 MrsD05 August 6, 2010 at 4:16 pm

p.s. Does anyone know how to contact The Pioneer Woman or know any of her friends? I think she would be all about this as well. Not that you aren’t doing a great job, Myra!
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21 MrsD05 August 6, 2010 at 4:25 pm

p.p.s I emailed her.
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22 Jasmine August 6, 2010 at 4:31 pm

What a beautiful story and a precious idea!

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23 Michelle August 6, 2010 at 4:35 pm

I would love to send her a card. We have a very close friends who have a little girl who is 3 who has downs. Now days instead of putting these kids in instutions they are now aborted. 9 out of 10 downs babies are aborted. The gift that these people are to their families is something that should treasured.

:) Michelle

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24 Emily L. Freelove August 6, 2010 at 4:53 pm

Definitely want to participate!

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25 Amy August 6, 2010 at 5:26 pm

I would love to!

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26 Jeanette Parsons August 6, 2010 at 5:31 pm

We would love to send her a card also.
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27 Jennifer August 6, 2010 at 5:37 pm

How cool. Please send me her info so I can send her a card!

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28 Mrs. K August 6, 2010 at 6:05 pm

I’d love to send her a card.
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29 Whitney August 6, 2010 at 6:18 pm

I would be more than happy to send her a card.

whitney.baugh (@) yahoo (.) com
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30 Kelly August 6, 2010 at 6:46 pm

I’m definitely doing it!!!! :)
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31 FoxFire August 6, 2010 at 7:06 pm

How cool!

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32 Amy W. August 6, 2010 at 7:49 pm

Wow, what a neat opportunity to bless someone! I would love to be a part of this.

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33 Lynnette August 6, 2010 at 8:02 pm

Count me in! :)

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34 Felicity holt August 6, 2010 at 8:27 pm

We would love to send a card. That is Isabelles birthday too.
Felicity.holt@gmail.com

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35 Nicole August 6, 2010 at 9:11 pm

I’d love to send a card from Korea.

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36 Mandy August 6, 2010 at 9:25 pm

Count me in too! :)
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37 Bethany August 6, 2010 at 9:28 pm

I would love to wish her a Happy 50th!
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38 Jennifer August 6, 2010 at 9:35 pm

This sounds like fun! Count me in!

~Jennifer

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39 The Diaper Diaries August 6, 2010 at 9:44 pm

I love this!! Count me in :)

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40 Charissa @ MiMi's Babies August 6, 2010 at 9:45 pm

Please send me an email with her address. Would love to send a card. :)
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41 love August 6, 2010 at 9:53 pm

my kids and i would love to send her cards!

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42 Kristy August 6, 2010 at 11:51 pm

I will send one!!

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43 Eos Mom August 6, 2010 at 11:56 pm

This is awesome! I have a cousin with Downs so it’s always great to hear about those living long and happy lives. Count me in!!!
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44 Gail Garvey August 7, 2010 at 2:00 am

I would love to send a birthday card to Donya.

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45 Sherry August 7, 2010 at 6:46 am

I’d love to send one.
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46 Karen August 7, 2010 at 7:16 am

count us in

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47 Rebecca August 7, 2010 at 8:23 am

I would love to send Donya a card!!! E-mail me at iiwTheWord@aol.com and thank you for passing this on. It’s a blessing to participate!

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48 Ashley Ann August 7, 2010 at 8:26 am

Oh Myra, how sweet! I just saw your FB post about this and am so glad I did! Count me in! :)
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49 JoeyfromSC August 7, 2010 at 8:32 am

That’s the sweetest story!! Off to tweet it also…

ajoebloe(at)gmail(dot)com

Would love to be a part!

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50 Esther August 7, 2010 at 9:19 am

I’d love to send her a card.

farmgirl9412 (at) gmail (dot) com
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51 Debi Lohr August 7, 2010 at 9:23 am

I would be happy to make and send a card to this very deserving woman!

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52 Hope August 7, 2010 at 11:15 am

I would love to help with this great celebration

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53 Beth August 7, 2010 at 2:21 pm

Count my family in!
thumphrey(at)ec(dot)rr(dot)com

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54 Jolene August 7, 2010 at 3:21 pm

Would love to take part!
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55 Marianne August 7, 2010 at 4:04 pm

I’d love to join! We have three boys and are in the adoption process of our own DS daughter named Darya. Me email address is mefick (at) gmail dot com

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56 Martha Joy August 7, 2010 at 4:14 pm

Hello Mrs. Myra,
I would love to send Ms. Donya a Birthday card – thanks for telling me! ;)
Please email me her address at: justducky@truevine.net – thanks!
Much love,
Martha Joy

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57 Cyndi August 7, 2010 at 4:58 pm

I think my boys would love to make some cards for her. What a blessing, thanks for sharing.

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58 Lauren August 7, 2010 at 6:15 pm

This is so wonderful – please email me her address! laurenalexis1{at}gmail{dot}com :)
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59 Muthering Heights August 7, 2010 at 7:56 pm

Hey lady, it’s MutheringHeights@gmail.com.

Her birthday is the day after mine…how FUN! :)
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60 abba12 August 7, 2010 at 9:01 pm

Hi, count me in! I have some very good friends with down syndrome and other similar issues, that’s such a great story.

abba12_the_first@hotmail.com

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61 Chele August 8, 2010 at 2:38 pm

I love it and definitely will send a card!! chele.gatherinspirit@gmail.com
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62 Rachel R August 8, 2010 at 2:54 pm

I’d love to send her a card. I have some friends and family too that would like to do this. srr1278@yahoo.com

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63 Cheryl August 8, 2010 at 7:29 pm

I would love to send birthday greetings to Donya! Please email me her address at clramey@comcast.net. Thank you!!

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64 barbara August 8, 2010 at 8:22 pm

Please send me Donya’s address – my family would like to send a card. I’m blogging so my readers can too. Thanks for doing this opportunity!

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65 Dedra Herod August 8, 2010 at 8:29 pm

I would be honored to send her a card! :)
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66 Kathy @ House of Hills August 8, 2010 at 8:36 pm

Would love to send a card!

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67 kathie Hogan August 8, 2010 at 8:58 pm

please send me a snail mail address…..I would so love to send a “real” card to Donya!
Thanks. And God bless this wonderful family.

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68 Gayla Kaeding August 8, 2010 at 9:10 pm

I will send her a hand made card and ask all my stamping friends to do the same!!!!

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69 KYouell August 8, 2010 at 9:19 pm

I’m in. I’ll even get the kids to draw a little on it (5yo son with Ds and 3yo daughter). Off to tweet this.
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70 KYouell August 8, 2010 at 10:08 pm

@KYouell, I also just posted about this on my blog… but I’m clueless about Trackbacks so don’t know what to do about that. :-)

http://kyouell.blogspot.com/2010/08/cards-for-donya.html
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71 Amy August 8, 2010 at 9:20 pm

I would love to be a part of this! munchkin(dot)amy(at)gmail(dot)com

Much Love

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72 Annmarie August 8, 2010 at 9:29 pm

I’d be honored to send a card to Donya! I’ll ask my church to do the same. Please send me her address.

Thanks!

Annmarie
Little Sister to B.J. (RTS)
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73 Dawnmarie of Forever Andrea August 8, 2010 at 10:52 pm

I would love to be a part of this wonderful idea! Please count me in. I will tweet this and put it on my blog too.

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74 Sarah Hedrick August 8, 2010 at 10:56 pm

Count me in, too!!

- Sarah

Coolbeanswaco@yahoo.com

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75 Sofia August 8, 2010 at 11:04 pm

Thanks for sending me the address! Made her a card! And will be in the mail first thing in the morning!
Thanks. What you are doing is awesome!

Sofia
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76 kaley August 8, 2010 at 11:11 pm

I am so touched by this story, i can’t wait to send Donya a birthday card.

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77 Anne August 8, 2010 at 11:32 pm

What a beautiful lady. Happy birthday Donya!

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78 Patty Coleman August 9, 2010 at 12:06 am

I would love to send her a card! pattycoleman@live.com

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79 Chacoy August 9, 2010 at 12:11 am

No matter how old/young we are, we love getting things in the mail!
I would love to be apart Donya’s special day!
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80 Heather August 9, 2010 at 12:25 am

My family would be honored to send her a card!
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81 Julie August 9, 2010 at 12:41 am

I will send her a card, please let me know the address. It might be a bit late because I am in Australia.

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82 Judy Waldron August 9, 2010 at 1:09 am

Would love to send birthday greetings all the way from Alaska! It is my 50th birthday this year as well.

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83 Adrienne August 9, 2010 at 1:45 am

Please count me in! My seven year old has DS. Donya is a great role model!

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84 JenniferB August 9, 2010 at 2:27 am

I’d love to send Donya a card.

jenbarker99 (gmail)

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85 Arlene Grimm August 9, 2010 at 7:11 am

Would love to send Donya a card. I just lost a 38 yo cousin who had Downs and feel this is a way to remember him as well!! Thanks for doing this for a sweet lady.

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86 Sarah August 9, 2010 at 7:13 am

Good Morning Myra,
I meant to tell you yesterday at church that I’d be happy to send Donya a card! My new e-mail address is rejoicingnhope@gmail.com.
See you Wednesday!

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87 Darci H August 9, 2010 at 7:26 am

My kids would LOVE making a card for Donya and we’ll send it with our love and admiration! Thanks!!!

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88 Emily August 9, 2010 at 7:28 am

Please send me the address so we can pass a card along!

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89 Kelly August 9, 2010 at 8:08 am

Count me in too!

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90 Mary August 9, 2010 at 8:21 am

I would love to help!

mvscherer (at) uwalumni (dot) com

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91 paola August 9, 2010 at 9:40 am

Would love to send a card to Donja, thanks

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92 Katie August 9, 2010 at 10:09 am

How sweet is this. I have a precious friend with Downs Syndrome and I am SO blessed to be her friend. I have learned so much about life from this sweet girl with an extra special chromosome. I would love to send a birthday card to Donya. Please send me her address. My email is KEGorski01 [at] yahoo [dot] com
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93 Angela Schnippel August 9, 2010 at 11:25 am

I would love to send Donya a card! :-)

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94 debbie kuklies August 9, 2010 at 11:32 am

I want to snail mail her a card. What is the address?

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95 april narretto August 9, 2010 at 11:58 am

would love to send a card to her. Beautiful story

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96 Kate Jensen August 9, 2010 at 12:41 pm

Yay for 50! My husband & I turned 50 this year, too & would love to celebrate with Donya.

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97 Nana August 9, 2010 at 1:55 pm

I’d love to send her a birthday card! Thanks for a lovely story.

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98 Sarah August 9, 2010 at 2:13 pm

swilson@ci.morganton.nc.us
I would love to send this very special lady a card for her 50th birthday!

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99 Laura August 9, 2010 at 2:29 pm

we would love to send donya a birthday card!
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100 Melinda M August 9, 2010 at 4:32 pm

I would be honored to send a card :)

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101 CS August 9, 2010 at 10:55 pm

I’d love to send her birthday wishes.

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