Last night I received an e-mail from a friend about a precious lady named Donya who attends church with her. Donya has Down’s Syndrome and her 50th birthday is coming up on August 18th.
I’ve been so touched by this woman’s story, that I must share it with you. And I’m asking you to help me make precious Donya’s 50th birthday the best of her life!
Donya is no ordinary almost-50 year old. Read what her mother says about her…
When Donya was diagnosed with Down’s Syndrome, we were told she would never walk, never talk, never be toilet trained. We were told she would not live more than 20 years. We were told to put her in an institution and forget her because we had three children who shouldn’t be burdened with her presence. Fifty years ago retarded children were hidden in attics and cellars and dismal institutions. We couldn’t do that to our precious child. Because of Donya and the parents of other children like her, education and services are now provided for many of our handicapped people.
Today, Donya is able to do everything for herself. She does her own cooking, cleaning and washing clothes. She gets up every morning and gets ready to go to work at a sheltered workshop. She makes about $25 a week and can’t wait to cash that big check and do a little shopping. She understands money and likes to save it.
She loves going to Sunday school and church every Sunday with her brother and his wife. She truly understands the joy of God. She loves shopping for clothes with another brother and his wife. Donya’s third brother and his wife, are planning a slide show of her life to show at her birthday party this year. She loves her brothers and all the rest of our family. She has never been the burden we were told she would be. We have been blessed by her presence.
Over the last two years, Donya has lost 40 pounds on Nutrisystem. She walks a half mile every day (one way) to our mail box, rain or shine, with her dog, Boots. She is obsessed with the mail and so happy when something is addressed to her.
I sent an e-mail out when Donya was 40 asking friends to share it with everyone they knew. Donya received over 1,000 cards from the states and 11 foreign countries. It took hours to read every word on every card for two weeks until her birthday. And she knew if I tried to skip a word! I promised her we would do it again when she was 50. This is the year and I’m asking you please to do it again for Donya.
How amazing! What an incredible woman!!
What can you do? How to get involved:
- Leave a comment on this post with your e-mail address. I will be sending out Donya’s address via e-mail to protect her privacy.
- Send a card to arrive on or before August 18th!
- Tweet: “Send a card to Donya who has Down’s Syndrome and turns 50 years old on 8/18! http://bit.ly/cHrioG #cards4donya”
- Blog about Cards For Donya and link back to this post for readers to get involved!
Thank you for helping make this a beautiful, wonderful birthday for Donya!

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This is such an awesome thing. Cannot wait to wish her a happy birthday!
We would love to send her a card!
Count me in! She sounds like an awesome lady!
Sofia @ frompdxwithlove.com
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I’ll send her a card!!
This is a wonderful story!!
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I will send a card.
Would love to send her a card!
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I would love to send her a card!
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Count me in! My dad has a cousin his age who had the same list of “nevers” as Donya. Her parents were told to institutionalize her. My great aunt refused the drs advice and raised her just like her other children. When the time came for school and there were no options in her rural community 60 years ago, my aunt started a school for the disabled. It is still running today although taken over by the community now. She is still alive and well and loves receiving mail too. I would love to send Donya a card!
we would love to send a few cards to her & pass the word along.
I’d be happy to send her a card. I passed the word along to a friend and will also tweet about it. Thanks for the opportunity to bless Donya!
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I would love to send a card to Donya!
How great! Please send me her address. I’d love to help make her day special!
I would really like to send Donya a card. I don’t have a whole lot of traffic, but I posted about her on my blog. This is a wonderful story.
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Count me in! Would love to send her a card, so please send her address my way.
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I would be delighted to send a card!
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I’d love to send her a card!
theblessedmom@gmail.com
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I have goosebumps!! I had a cousin with Downs- he passed away a couple years ago- at 40something
I would love to send a card.
cgd.avon@yahoo.com
Thanks for reposting!!
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What a blessing to have this opportunity!
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I would love to send Donya a card!
jennypoo803@gmail.com
p.s. Does anyone know how to contact The Pioneer Woman or know any of her friends? I think she would be all about this as well. Not that you aren’t doing a great job, Myra!
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p.p.s I emailed her.
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What a beautiful story and a precious idea!
I would love to send her a card. We have a very close friends who have a little girl who is 3 who has downs. Now days instead of putting these kids in instutions they are now aborted. 9 out of 10 downs babies are aborted. The gift that these people are to their families is something that should treasured.
Definitely want to participate!
I would love to!
We would love to send her a card also.
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How cool. Please send me her info so I can send her a card!
I’d love to send her a card.
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I would be more than happy to send her a card.
whitney.baugh (@) yahoo (.) com
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I’m definitely doing it!!!!
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How cool!
Wow, what a neat opportunity to bless someone! I would love to be a part of this.
Count me in!
We would love to send a card. That is Isabelles birthday too.
Felicity.holt@gmail.com
I’d love to send a card from Korea.
Count me in too!
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I would love to wish her a Happy 50th!
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This sounds like fun! Count me in!
~Jennifer
I love this!! Count me in
Please send me an email with her address. Would love to send a card.
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my kids and i would love to send her cards!
I will send one!!
This is awesome! I have a cousin with Downs so it’s always great to hear about those living long and happy lives. Count me in!!!
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I would love to send a birthday card to Donya.
I’d love to send one.
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count us in
I would love to send Donya a card!!! E-mail me at iiwTheWord@aol.com and thank you for passing this on. It’s a blessing to participate!
Oh Myra, how sweet! I just saw your FB post about this and am so glad I did! Count me in!
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That’s the sweetest story!! Off to tweet it also…
ajoebloe(at)gmail(dot)com
Would love to be a part!
I’d love to send her a card.
farmgirl9412 (at) gmail (dot) com
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I would be happy to make and send a card to this very deserving woman!
I would love to help with this great celebration
Count my family in!
thumphrey(at)ec(dot)rr(dot)com
Would love to take part!
sloans2ukraine(at)netzero(dot)net
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I’d love to join! We have three boys and are in the adoption process of our own DS daughter named Darya. Me email address is mefick (at) gmail dot com
Hello Mrs. Myra,
I would love to send Ms. Donya a Birthday card – thanks for telling me!
Please email me her address at: justducky@truevine.net – thanks!
Much love,
Martha Joy
I think my boys would love to make some cards for her. What a blessing, thanks for sharing.
This is so wonderful – please email me her address! laurenalexis1{at}gmail{dot}com
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Hey lady, it’s MutheringHeights@gmail.com.
Her birthday is the day after mine…how FUN!
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Hi, count me in! I have some very good friends with down syndrome and other similar issues, that’s such a great story.
abba12_the_first@hotmail.com
I love it and definitely will send a card!! chele.gatherinspirit@gmail.com
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I’d love to send her a card. I have some friends and family too that would like to do this. srr1278@yahoo.com
I would love to send birthday greetings to Donya! Please email me her address at clramey@comcast.net. Thank you!!
Please send me Donya’s address – my family would like to send a card. I’m blogging so my readers can too. Thanks for doing this opportunity!
I would be honored to send her a card!
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Would love to send a card!
please send me a snail mail address…..I would so love to send a “real” card to Donya!
Thanks. And God bless this wonderful family.
I will send her a hand made card and ask all my stamping friends to do the same!!!!
I’m in. I’ll even get the kids to draw a little on it (5yo son with Ds and 3yo daughter). Off to tweet this.
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@KYouell, I also just posted about this on my blog… but I’m clueless about Trackbacks so don’t know what to do about that.
http://kyouell.blogspot.com/2010/08/cards-for-donya.html
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I would love to be a part of this! munchkin(dot)amy(at)gmail(dot)com
Much Love
I’d be honored to send a card to Donya! I’ll ask my church to do the same. Please send me her address.
Thanks!
Annmarie
Little Sister to B.J. (RTS)
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I would love to be a part of this wonderful idea! Please count me in. I will tweet this and put it on my blog too.
Count me in, too!!
- Sarah
Coolbeanswaco@yahoo.com
Thanks for sending me the address! Made her a card! And will be in the mail first thing in the morning!
Thanks. What you are doing is awesome!
Sofia
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I am so touched by this story, i can’t wait to send Donya a birthday card.
What a beautiful lady. Happy birthday Donya!
I would love to send her a card! pattycoleman@live.com
No matter how old/young we are, we love getting things in the mail!
I would love to be apart Donya’s special day!
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My family would be honored to send her a card!
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I will send her a card, please let me know the address. It might be a bit late because I am in Australia.
Would love to send birthday greetings all the way from Alaska! It is my 50th birthday this year as well.
Please count me in! My seven year old has DS. Donya is a great role model!
I’d love to send Donya a card.
jenbarker99 (gmail)
Would love to send Donya a card. I just lost a 38 yo cousin who had Downs and feel this is a way to remember him as well!! Thanks for doing this for a sweet lady.
Good Morning Myra,
I meant to tell you yesterday at church that I’d be happy to send Donya a card! My new e-mail address is rejoicingnhope@gmail.com.
See you Wednesday!
My kids would LOVE making a card for Donya and we’ll send it with our love and admiration! Thanks!!!
Please send me the address so we can pass a card along!
Count me in too!
I would love to help!
mvscherer (at) uwalumni (dot) com
Would love to send a card to Donja, thanks
How sweet is this. I have a precious friend with Downs Syndrome and I am SO blessed to be her friend. I have learned so much about life from this sweet girl with an extra special chromosome. I would love to send a birthday card to Donya. Please send me her address. My email is KEGorski01 [at] yahoo [dot] com
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I would love to send Donya a card!
I want to snail mail her a card. What is the address?
would love to send a card to her. Beautiful story
Yay for 50! My husband & I turned 50 this year, too & would love to celebrate with Donya.
I’d love to send her a birthday card! Thanks for a lovely story.
swilson@ci.morganton.nc.us
I would love to send this very special lady a card for her 50th birthday!
we would love to send donya a birthday card!
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I would be honored to send a card
I’d love to send her birthday wishes.