Comments on: Remembering My Angel Baby… http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html inspiring you to creatively thrive in your home Wed, 08 Feb 2012 22:43:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Deborah H. Bateman http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-122409 Deborah H. Bateman Wed, 01 Feb 2012 13:54:44 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-122409 I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I had two miscarriages over 30 years ago and I still think about them from time to time. I am happy to say God blessed me with two daughters and five grandchildren. I also wrote a post about mine called "God's Timing is Perfect" if you are interested in reading it is on my website. May God bless you and comfort you. I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I had two miscarriages over 30 years ago and I still think about them from time to time. I am happy to say God blessed me with two daughters and five grandchildren. I also wrote a post about mine called “God’s Timing is Perfect” if you are interested in reading it is on my website. May God bless you and comfort you.

]]> By: Kami http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-93060 Kami Sat, 10 Sep 2011 15:58:46 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-93060 What a beautiful post that unfortunately rings true for so many of us. I was 6 weeks along when I lost our 2nd baby. Over and over during my grieving I felt the Lord asking me, "Am I still good?" I had to relearn the answer to that question. Yes Lord, You are still good; my circumstances don't change Your character. God has used my pain over and over through the 5 years since my miscarriage to minister to other women in the same position. The verses that really speak to me are II Corinthians 1:3-4 "All praise to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. He is the source of every mercy and the God who comforts us. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When others are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us." What a beautiful post that unfortunately rings true for so many of us. I was 6 weeks along when I lost our 2nd baby. Over and over during my grieving I felt the Lord asking me, “Am I still good?” I had to relearn the answer to that question. Yes Lord, You are still good; my circumstances don’t change Your character. God has used my pain over and over through the 5 years since my miscarriage to minister to other women in the same position. The verses that really speak to me are II Corinthians 1:3-4 “All praise to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. He is the source of every mercy and the God who comforts us. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When others are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.”

]]> By: Lisa http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-90771 Lisa Fri, 26 Aug 2011 17:33:03 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-90771 Thank you for this post. I have had two miscarriages and this really rings true for me. It is so hard. Thankfully, three months ago, I gave birth to a healthy baby boy, our Samuel. His name means "asked of God," and he truly is an answer to our prayer. May our Lord bless you! Thank you for this post. I have had two miscarriages and this really rings true for me. It is so hard. Thankfully, three months ago, I gave birth to a healthy baby boy, our Samuel. His name means “asked of God,” and he truly is an answer to our prayer. May our Lord bless you!

]]> By: Shana http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83108 Shana Sun, 10 Jul 2011 04:13:14 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83108 I should correct what I said ...4 babies here ..1 in heaven. But I know you all know what I meant <3 I should correct what I said …4 babies here ..1 in heaven. But I know you all know what I meant <3

]]> By: Shana http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83107 Shana Sun, 10 Jul 2011 04:10:07 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83107 As most everyone has already said, Thank you for this posting, it has moved me so much I cried reading it and still want to cry writing this. God is good isn't he? But there are times that are hard to accept as good, trials we go through that bring us right to our knees. I lost my little one at 7 weeks "it" was to be my 3rd. I really doesn't matter wether its your first ..or your third, a loss is a loss. And althought I am so greatful that my loss came early, rather than later...it is still a loss. My heart broke, my husbands heart broke, and I felt such sadness for others that had carried and lost further along, I can't imagine their anguish :( I praise God for the mercy He showed me. And 8 weeks after my miscarraige, before I even knew I could get pregnant again I was! #3 came anyway..and alas #4 also . God IS good, He can restore what is lost. I am not exactly sure the date I lost the baby, I was in denial the first 4 days. I choose to remember that babies due date May 18th..and although that day brings me sadness to, we try to commemorate it ..i reminded my husband this year that our baby would have been 3. I am happy thought to be celebrating #3's 3rd birthday on July 15th! GOD IS GOOD! God bless you all and my sweet christian sisters. God will renew you, He will restore you, He is faithful. Bring your burdans and your greif to Jesus he knows your pain, and it pains Him too! As most everyone has already said, Thank you for this posting, it has moved me so much I cried reading it and still want to cry writing this. God is good isn’t he? But there are times that are hard to accept as good, trials we go through that bring us right to our knees. I lost my little one at 7 weeks “it” was to be my 3rd. I really doesn’t matter wether its your first ..or your third, a loss is a loss. And althought I am so greatful that my loss came early, rather than later…it is still a loss. My heart broke, my husbands heart broke, and I felt such sadness for others that had carried and lost further along, I can’t imagine their anguish :( I praise God for the mercy He showed me. And 8 weeks after my miscarraige, before I even knew I could get pregnant again I was! #3 came anyway..and alas #4 also . God IS good, He can restore what is lost. I am not exactly sure the date I lost the baby, I was in denial the first 4 days. I choose to remember that babies due date May 18th..and although that day brings me sadness to, we try to commemorate it ..i reminded my husband this year that our baby would have been 3. I am happy thought to be celebrating #3′s 3rd birthday on July 15th! GOD IS GOOD! God bless you all and my sweet christian sisters. God will renew you, He will restore you, He is faithful. Bring your burdans and your greif to Jesus he knows your pain, and it pains Him too!

]]> By: Darlene http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83076 Darlene Sat, 09 Jul 2011 18:48:38 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83076 just prayed for you, sweet girl :) sending love your way. just prayed for you, sweet girl :) sending love your way.
Darlene´s last [type] ..my current favorite song

]]> By: Jennifer http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83069 Jennifer Sat, 09 Jul 2011 16:26:28 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83069 I am so sorry for your loss. We have a angel baby also we miscarried back in March 2009 and the pain is still with me. I did go on to have healthy pregnancy (we conceived nine months later on the exact month I would have been due I know God gave us our miracle on that month for a reason) and I have one-year-old daughter who brings me joy everyday but that loss is always with me and I think for all women our losses are with us forever. I am there for all the women who have suffered a loss or who are going through one I am not afraid to tell my experiences and let people know what happened to us. Our angel babies are with us always! I am so sorry for your loss. We have a angel baby also we miscarried back in March 2009 and the pain is still with me. I did go on to have healthy pregnancy (we conceived nine months later on the exact month I would have been due I know God gave us our miracle on that month for a reason) and I have one-year-old daughter who brings me joy everyday but that loss is always with me and I think for all women our losses are with us forever. I am there for all the women who have suffered a loss or who are going through one I am not afraid to tell my experiences and let people know what happened to us. Our angel babies are with us always!

]]> By: Tammy http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83067 Tammy Sat, 09 Jul 2011 16:08:48 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83067 I am so sorry for your loss and I can not even begin to understand the pain you feel. I read a book a few weeks ago called Heaven is For Real. If you have not read it you should. It will make you cry a little, smile a lot and feel oh so good about knowing that you will be reunited with your baby in heaven. Here is a link to the book. God bless you and your family. Tammy Schrader http://www.amazon.com/Heaven-Real-Little-Astounding-Story/dp/0849946158 I am so sorry for your loss and I can not even begin to understand the pain you feel. I read a book a few weeks ago called Heaven is For Real. If you have not read it you should. It will make you cry a little, smile a lot and feel oh so good about knowing that you will be reunited with your baby in heaven. Here is a link to the book. God bless you and your family.

Tammy Schrader

http://www.amazon.com/Heaven-Real-Little-Astounding-Story/dp/0849946158

]]> By: Becky Campbell http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83063 Becky Campbell Sat, 09 Jul 2011 15:31:00 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83063 I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand your pain. I miscarried 4 yrs ago last month. I still remember it like it was yesterday. Time does make it easier to talk about and I don't feel like I'm falling apart everytime I think about her (I'm convinced it was a girl), but I will never forget. I was 5 weeks along when I found out I was pregnant and 7 weeks when I lost her. I knew the second it happened and I spent an entire day driving all over town visiting clinic and clinic and Dr. office after Dr. office looking for someone who would tell me it wasn't true. I found no such person. It was ultimately 2 blood tests, 2 days apart that told me my HCG levels were dropping and I was losing her. I cried for a week straight, partly because I was losing a baby I wanted so badly, but also because we had only told a couple of people. I felt such incredible guilt for not telling our kids that they were going to have a new sibling. I felt like we missed the opportunity to truly celebrate her life while we had the chance. I guess in hindsight, it was better for them to not have to deal with that at their young ages...but still...:'( I think we'll tell them at some point when they are older. They deserve to know about their Guardian Angel!♥ I’m so sorry for your loss. I understand your pain. I miscarried 4 yrs ago last month. I still remember it like it was yesterday. Time does make it easier to talk about and I don’t feel like I’m falling apart everytime I think about her (I’m convinced it was a girl), but I will never forget. I was 5 weeks along when I found out I was pregnant and 7 weeks when I lost her. I knew the second it happened and I spent an entire day driving all over town visiting clinic and clinic and Dr. office after Dr. office looking for someone who would tell me it wasn’t true. I found no such person. It was ultimately 2 blood tests, 2 days apart that told me my HCG levels were dropping and I was losing her. I cried for a week straight, partly because I was losing a baby I wanted so badly, but also because we had only told a couple of people. I felt such incredible guilt for not telling our kids that they were going to have a new sibling. I felt like we missed the opportunity to truly celebrate her life while we had the chance. I guess in hindsight, it was better for them to not have to deal with that at their young ages…but still…:’( I think we’ll tell them at some point when they are older. They deserve to know about their Guardian Angel!♥

]]> By: Michelle http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html/comment-page-1#comment-83055 Michelle Sat, 09 Jul 2011 14:26:42 +0000 http://myblessedlife.net/2009/07/remembering-my-angel-baby.html#comment-83055 I also had a miscarriage a little over 3 years ago...it was without a doubt the hardest thing I've ever dealt with! As a mother, the mother carrying that child, it is so easy to place blame on our own shoulders, we miss that child even though they were not inside us long and we never held the baby as we would have otherwise. For me, I blamed myself for a little while (until I came back to God and realized it was simply His will to take our baby so soon). Now that our son is 5, and the kids would have been close in age, I find myself missing her even more. Just imagining my son and daughter playing together, being best friends, celebrating holidays together....but I trust God and have so much hope in knowing we will all one day do these things together. My husband and I planted a tree in our yard the following Autumn. Sadly, the tree didn't make it (so we thought). For a year, it appeared to be dead. Then God gaves us the hope we needed...the next Spring, there were leaves....then buds....then beautiful pink flowers. That tree is so very precious to our family :) I'll be keeping you in my prayers today....may you be filled with joy knowing you will one day look into your child's eyes :) I also had a miscarriage a little over 3 years ago…it was without a doubt the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with! As a mother, the mother carrying that child, it is so easy to place blame on our own shoulders, we miss that child even though they were not inside us long and we never held the baby as we would have otherwise. For me, I blamed myself for a little while (until I came back to God and realized it was simply His will to take our baby so soon). Now that our son is 5, and the kids would have been close in age, I find myself missing her even more. Just imagining my son and daughter playing together, being best friends, celebrating holidays together….but I trust God and have so much hope in knowing we will all one day do these things together. My husband and I planted a tree in our yard the following Autumn. Sadly, the tree didn’t make it (so we thought). For a year, it appeared to be dead. Then God gaves us the hope we needed…the next Spring, there were leaves….then buds….then beautiful pink flowers. That tree is so very precious to our family :) I’ll be keeping you in my prayers today….may you be filled with joy knowing you will one day look into your child’s eyes :)

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